I wonder what would happen if I treated everyone like I was in love with them whether I like them or not, and whether they respond or not, and no matter what they say or do to me… just accept all that and turn my attention to some small, weak, tender, hidden part, and keep my eyes on that until it shines like a beam of light, like a bonfire I can warm my hands by and trust it to burn away all the waste which never was my business to meddle with. ~ Derek Tasker